"I want to do something big, but there's so much negativity around me that I can't focus on anything." We all want to do something big in life or achieve big things but the reality is that 99% of us are unable to do anything big in life.
So today in this post I will tell you what are the mistakes or reasons behind the problem that most of us are not able to do great things in life and what we should do if we want to do great things in life.
So let's find a solution to this life problem,
Problem 1: Chasing after the wrong things
When 99% of people set goals in life, they aim for something like this - a lot of money, a lot of fame or a lot of power. to do The first problem is that they don't specify how much this 'lot off' is.
As a result, the race becomes endless. This means that even after a person becomes a millionaire, he continues to chase money like a madman, because for him then this huge sum turns from crores of rupees to thousands of crores of rupees.
The craving gets bigger and bigger. The second is that getting a lot of money, a lot of fame, or a lot of power is somehow the result of an action. And the results are never completely under our control.
The action we take is completely under our control, but we have almost no control over the outcome. I mean, suppose, someone wants to become famous by singing.
But he has no control over people's reaction whether people will praise him or abuse him. Yes, if he can learn to sing well he can expect to gain some fame and recognition. But no one can guarantee that this will happen.
Problem 2: Not believing that
I can do great things 99% of people do not believe that they can do great things in life. Yes, everyone says they want to do something big in life. But when it comes to talking, most of us give up by saying, "Oh no, it's too hard for me."
Problem 3: Giving up easily 99% of people give up as soon as they start facing some problems.
Someone started a new business but immediately gave up when he couldn't sell a single product in a month. Or maybe two days after entering the job, someone immediately quits the job after encountering some problems at the workplace.
Or maybe someone started learning a new skill like photography or digital marketing or video making, but after a month of learning it didn't show any good results and gave up immediately.
So if you want to do something big in life you should not make the same mistakes that 99% of people do. Only 1% of people do the right thing in life. Now the question is, what are those things? So let's find the solution.
Solution 1: Learn to love your work
Only 1% of people love their work more than anything else. They love their work more than money, fame or power. If AR Rahman's music albums stop earning crores of rupees from tomorrow, do you think AR Rahman will stop composing music?
If APJ Abdul Kalam is told that he will be removed from the post of President, will he stop doing good for the people? Take the example of one of the top 1% of people in the world.
Their work is more important to them than money, fame or power. So if you want to be in the top 1% category, you have to stop craving things and learn to love your work.
And to do that, you have to find the work that you enjoy the most, that is, whenever you do that work, you enjoy it so much that you find the time. 99% of people don't even want to bother to find this job for them in their entire life.
Now in which category you want to put your name, it is completely up to you.
Solution 2: Learn to believe with logic
99% of people are not ready to believe with their mind that they can do great things in life, one of the main reasons behind this is lack of self-confidence.
"I am an ordinary man who is not even highly educated. How is it possible for me to start a huge business?"
If you have this kind of self-doubt, the only way to get rid of it is to search the internet for countless examples of people who have come from less privileged backgrounds than you and have done so. Build your own business.
Which is worth crores of rupees today.
If they can do it, why can't you?
Yes, if no one has been able to do what you want to do in the past, it's understandable if you have self-doubt. But when thousands of people have done or achieved in the past what you are planning to achieve, then there is no room for self-doubt.
All you have to do is follow their directions.
Solution 3: Think before you act, not after
How do you make the right decision every time when asked?
Ratan Tata said that I do not believe in taking the right decision. I make a decision and then correct it. So top 1% people think thousand times before starting anything but once they start doing it, then they don't think if they should give up or not.
Because if I'm going to give up, why would I ride it?
There is no need to rush before starting anything. Think and decide both the pros and cons before taking any decision or starting any work.
Find out what the best possible and worst possible outcome of this task could be. If it seems like the worst possible outcome could cause irreparable heavy damage, don't start doing it.
But if it seems like the worst that could happen isn't going to be a huge loss, while the best possible outcome would result in a huge gain, then start doing it.
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